Usually each volunteer is assigned to one high school
during their stay in Thailand, but my second week here was a holiday at the
school where I was teaching. It is a rice harvest season in the region and
Saikeaw School closes down for practical reasons - most children need to help
their parents during this time, so they wouldn’t be able to attend the lessons
anyway. As the demand for foreign teachers is very high the organizers decided
that I can help teaching in another school during that week. So on Sunday night
straight from the trip to Ubon I went to meet my new host family. The Mother
(the English teacher) is around 50 years old and has two young daughters – Pim
(17) and Pan (12). They gave me a very nice welcome – the three of them speak
English quite ok, so we can communicate. The father of the family, on the
contrary, said maybe one word to me during my 5 days there, but still he was
helpful so I can’t complain. ;) They live in a small house, but my stay there
was comfortable – I had my own room with big bed and air-conditioning. The
bathroom was quite funny, as it was of a size of a toilet and had a short
shower-alike thing, which could as well be used to fill up the basket with
water (a must-be in every Thai toilet). Anyway, since the cold water doesn’t
support long showers it wasn’t a big problem for me.
Family
routine
My host family was a very busy family. Both the Mother
and the Father work for Ban Tamor School, where I volunteered. The school will
be subject to a government evaluation at the end of the month, so all resources
are focused these days on improvements – starting from cleaning, painting,
renovating, decorating, through paper work and completion of some projects to
evaluation of students to show the good quality of the teaching. The English
teacher received an additional assignment to manage the preparation process to
this evaluation, so she stayed long hours at school (every day from 8am until
6pm) and English class wasn’t her priority at all.
The Father was a physical education teacher, but these
days he was busy with everything related to the evaluation. After the classes
finished he played football with students until 6pm.
The older daughter Pim was 17 years old and was in her
last year of high school. She is planning to study Chinese to become a Chinese
teacher in the future. She’s very smart and funny, we had nice time together
chatting about life in Poland, Europe and Thailand. She is a big fun of British
accent and sense of humor (read: British men) and uniforms – even if totally
different age and culture we have something in common ;-) Her dream is to go to
Europe to see snow. I hope she’ll be able to do this and will visit me during
her trip! Pim knows how to dance Thai dance and she showed me a few moves – my
favourite dance is so called “angel dance”. Below is link to a short video of the dance
from the opening of elephant weekend in Surin:
The younger daughter Pan is 12 years old and she is a
born comedian. She likes to be in the center of attention and says always what
she thinks. I had a lot of fun with both of the girls J Pan is very talented in
drawing – this month she’s drawing every day after school, as she prepares for
a competition. We visited her once to pick her up and I could see some of her
really nice drawings:
She was also so sweet to draw a farewell picture for me,
which I simply loved! J So
in eyes of a young Thai artist I look like this:
Do you see a lot of similarities? ;-)
School
routine
On my first day at school the English teacher told me 5
minutes before the lessons that she hasn’t prepared any program for today. As a
result I had to improvise for 3 hours with kids who barely understood English…
It was quite challenging because as a perfectionist I wasn’t happy to “just try
to make the children busy” during the one hour class. I really wanted them to
connect and work together with me. I managed with some of her help, but I
promised to myself that I’ll be better prepared for next time. So since I had
to teach the class on my own I decided that there is no need to follow the book
for a week and I will to boost their speaking skills. I prepared some materials
for the kids to have the necessary vocabulary and know the meaning of the words
without the need of explaining in Thai (God bless pictionaries!) and the next
days were much easier and much more fun! Ban Tamor is a small school (200
students including primary school and secondary school) and I only taught 4
groups of students. Thanks to this I had a chance to get to know them quite
fast as I saw each group almost daily. Most of the groups were smart and I
could teach the complete class in English, but for some of them I needed the
teacher with me to translate into Thai. I taught the students about free time
activities and physical appearance – usually we repeated the pronunciation
together and afterwards they spoke in groups or individually. Thai people are
not used to individual work and they are very shy to speak in front of the
class. During the first hours together whenever I asked someone to speak they
reacted with panic or laughter one at another, but with time and my trials to
make them feel comfortable and appreciated they were more talkative and open. I
loved to see their efforts and interest in the subject - that really gave me a
lot of energy to do my work!!! I realized that I really love to inspire them -
share my knowledge, my energy… and if they answer back with the interest and
enthusiasm it brings me a lot of satisfaction and further motivation!
Reading what I just wrote reminds me about a coaching
training which I attended a few months ago at work. Out of four personality
types (director = red type, observer = blue type, inspirer = yellow type,
helper = green type) I was an “inspirer”
- someone who is very positive, appreciates group work and group thinking and
loves to inspire other people. Before coming here I related this description
with my energy which I usually like to spread around. I never actually thought
that I would be a good teacher, because I’m impatient, but I figured that this
is a different type of impatience. I can’t stand traffic or can’t stand when
people are late for too long, because I just don’t like wasting time… I learned
that in the class I can be very patient and try to do my best for some slower
students to follow the rest. And I want them to understand, not to repeat… I
love sharing my knowledge and working with groups of people J So I learned a lot about
myself too.
Students’
obligations
I wanted to share with you something special about Ban
Tamor school. Next to gaining knowledge typical for primary & high school
the purpose of this place is to teach its students how to be responsible,
respectful and how to take care of others. In order to achieve that students
are involved in additional activities during the day. Before morning ceremony
they sweep floors, rake leaves and clean the school premises. They sometimes go
out to buy some ingredients for lunch from shops nearby. During the lunch break
they distribute food to each other. There are three stands – with soup, rice
and desserts – where everyone can be served with their preferred food. Once the
food is distributed the students seat on the floor on the canteen in circles
according to their age. They usually share the soups and main dishes among each
other (they keep 2-3 plates in the middle) and keep one plate of rice for each
of them. The lunch starts with a prayer. The students ‘in charge’ of the food
stands serve also food to teachers – on the only table in the canteen. Once the
meal is finished you bring the dishes outside – to a place with a few tables
and bowls with water, where everyone washes the dishes after themselves. Next
to that place is a small garden, where students and teachers grow some
vegetables for the canteen. In the afternoon in their free time boys help other
teachers fixing whatever needs to be fixed around the school (door, tables etc.)
and girls prepare decorations for class rooms. After school the teachers and
students interested in sports gather to play football or practice Thai boxing. A
cook during lunch hours becomes Thai boxing teacher after work. They all need
each other. They are like one big family caring about each other and contributing
to their daily routines with whatever they can bring at their age. I saw once
two little girls (probably beginning of primary school) carrying together one
big box, they stopped every once in a while to recover the energy, but they
didn’t give up…
The first time I noticed this practice at school I had
mixed feelings. I thought that they use the kids to do work for which the
school should hire someone… But after overcoming the judgment from European
point of view I realized that this is normal for these kids and that they really
behave in a responsible and caring manner. They take some time a week to
participate in the school activities, but for the rest of their time they are
just normal children, who can play and have fun with their friends. I really
believe that if you are raised to be responsible you realize and appreciate more
what you have. We hear so much these days about teenagers being totally spoiled
and disrespectful to their parents and elder people. This is in my opinion
consequence of raising children in an environment free of responsibilities and
stress. They grow ensured that they are the center of the world and deserve best
things in life without caring about anyone else but themselves… You might disagree, but I think Europeans
could learn something from this school.
Below are some pictures showing school activities and
some of my lessons:
Brushing teeth after lunch.
Teachers washing dishes.
Thai boxing in the afternoon with the cook/trainer
Very colorful school premises
The English class
uring my lessonsDuring my lessons
My last lesson in Ban Tamor school
Together with students
Cooking class with students - we prepared a delicious massaman curry
The cooking team & their English teacher
Morning activities - boys
Morning activities - girls
Gardening
Gardening
I'm helping to distribute the soup during lunch break
Students praying before eating lunch
Rice for everyone
Lunch time @ Ban Tamor. Students walk in the canteen without shoes.
My stay in this school lasted only a week, but I’m really
glad I had the opportunity to work here.
